Therese ‘Terry’ Pounds (Joiner): 1927-2024

Therese “Terry” Pounds (Joiner), 97, of Montclair, NJ died peacefully surrounded by family at Mountainside Hospital on Wednesday, September 11, 2024. Beloved mother, grandmother, great-grandmother, aunt, cousin and friend, Terry was born a ‘survivor,’ having lost her mother who died soon after her birth in 1927 in New York City. She subsequently lived all over the world as a self-described “army brat” after her father, Colonel Talley Dosier Joiner, remarried and reclaimed “his little Therese” from her aunts who raised her until she was six. After graduating from Columbia High School in Maplewood, NJ, Terry briefly attended college at Trinity, DC, then decided to go to Katharine Gibbs Secretarial School in NJ. The skills she learned there served her well at her first secretarial jobs in Manhattan, then later at Montclair Kimberly Academy in Montclair where she worked for almost twenty years in the Office of External Affairs. She was proud of her mastery of the rules of English grammar, and many relied on her to proofread their letters. After the death of her husband in 1978, Terry set up a Montclair chapter of THEOS, a nationwide non-denominational support group for widowed men and women. She ran the group for approximately ten years and created friendships from that work that lasted until her death. She was also involved with the Friends of Barnet and the Montclair Fine Arts Festival.
Terry was predeceased in death by her husband, Donald Pounds, her son Richard, her beloved companions, Arthur Jones and Fred Berinato, and her sisters Lucy and Claire. She is survived by her son Donald Pounds and his companion Patrice Holtzer, daughter Mary Pounds Sisler, daughter-in-law Bette Pounds, sons James Pounds (Bethany) and Thomas Pounds (Liljana), daughter Virginia Pounds, sons Michael Pounds (Catherine) and John Pounds. She was the proud grandmother of sixteen grandchildren and five great-grandchildren: Katy, Austin, Colleen, Connor, Jordan, Jason, Jeremy, Natalie, Anika, Evan, Noah, Ben, Eli, Max, Harper and Nolan; Scarlett, Emma, Carson, Peyton and Wesley. She is also survived by a large extended family and countless friends.
Funeral Services will be held on Saturday, November 9 at 10 a.m. at Immaculate Conception Church, 30 N. Fullerton Ave., Montclair, NJ 07042, followed by interment of ashes at Immaculate Conception Cemetery in Upper Montclair.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Terry’s name to The Release Recovery Foundation at: https://donate.hakuapp.com/donations/new?fundraising_effort=in-loving-memory-of-therese-terry-pounds.
Robert L. Shank, Sr.
05/27/1934 - 11/09/2024
Obituary For Robert L. Shank, Sr.
Robert L. Shank Sr., 90, of Perrysburg, Ohio, died peacefully at home on Saturday, November 9th, 2024. He was a generous, dedicated, hard-working, and determined man. For Bob, funeral service was a life-long calling. He spent over 60 years serving the families of northwest Ohio, retiring at the age of 85.
Bob was born on May 27th, 1934, in Toledo, Ohio, to Cuthbert (Sandy) Shank and Ruby (Meier) Shank. He graduated from Libbey High School in 1952. After working with his parents in his father’s grocery store, he pursued a career in funeral service and graduated from Cincinnati College of Embalming in 1956. In 1960, Bob married his bride Clara (Mercer) Shank after being set up by Bob’s father Sandy. They had 3 children together. In 1964, Bob and Clara were given the opportunity to purchase Witzler Funeral Home, which had been serving the Perrysburg community since 1859. This humble beginning led to a successful career in funeral service with the ownership of several funeral homes and cemeteries. He was known for his commitment and dedication to serving the families of Perrysburg and its surrounding towns. His service to the profession included involvement in both state and national governance. In 1980, Bob was elected President of the Ohio Funeral Directors Association. A decade later in 1990, he was elected President of the National Funeral Directors Association. One of his greatest honors was being sent to 9/11 in New York City to assist recovery efforts.
Bob served his country in the Army Reserves and devoted much time and attention to his community. Since 1964, he was a member of Zoar Lutheran Church in Perrysburg, Ohio where he served on several committees. Bob also served as a member of the Perrysburg Board of Education and St. Luke’s Hospital Board in Maumee.
Bob loved spending time on Lake Erie fishing for perch and walleye. For more than a decade, he took annual trips to Alaska to fish for salmon and halibut. He enjoyed traveling with his family and was known for his generosity.
Surviving are his children Tamara Shank Harden, Karen Shank Sliter (David), and Robert L. Shank, Jr. (Tonya); grandchildren Morgan M. Shank, Robert L. Shank III, Katrina L. Sliter, Jessica J. Sliter, Jacqueline M. Sliter, and Stephanie K. Sliter; nieces and nephew, and many extended family members. He was preceded in death by his parents, 2 brothers, wife Clara (Mercer) Shank, Son-in-law Robert E. Harden Jr., and many dear friends.
Friends will be received at the Witzler-Shank-Walker Funeral Home, 222 East South Boundary, Perrysburg, Ohio (419-315-9770) from 3-8 pm Tuesday November 12th, 2024. Funeral services will be led by Pastor Paul Reichert on Wednesday November 13th, 2024 at 11am at Zoar Lutheran Church, 314 East Indiana Avenue, Perrysburg, where visitation will begin at 10am. Burial will follow in
Fort Meigs Cemetery. The family suggests memorials be sent to Zoar Lutheran Church or Wood County Humane Society. Condolences may be made online to the family at www.walkerfuneralhomes.com.
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