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Therese ‘Terry’ Pounds (Joiner): 1927-2024

Therese “Terry” Pounds (Joiner), 97, of Montclair, NJ died peacefully surrounded by family at Mountainside Hospital on Wednesday, September 11, 2024. Beloved mother, grandmother, great-grandmother, aunt, cousin and friend, Terry was born a ‘survivor,’ having lost her mother who died soon after her birth in 1927 in New York City. She subsequently lived all over the world as a self-described “army brat” after her father, Colonel Talley Dosier Joiner, remarried and reclaimed “his little Therese” from her aunts who raised her until she was six. After graduating from Columbia High School in Maplewood, NJ, Terry briefly attended college at Trinity, DC, then decided to go to Katharine Gibbs Secretarial School in NJ. The skills she learned there served her well at her first secretarial jobs in Manhattan, then later at Montclair Kimberly Academy in Montclair where she worked for almost twenty years in the Office of External Affairs. She was proud of her mastery of the rules of English grammar, and many relied on her to proofread their letters. After the death of her husband in 1978, Terry set up a Montclair chapter of THEOS, a nationwide non-denominational support group for widowed men and women. She ran the group for approximately ten years and created friendships from that work that lasted until her death. She was also involved with the Friends of Barnet and the Montclair Fine Arts Festival.

Terry was predeceased in death by her husband, Donald Pounds, her son Richard, her beloved companions, Arthur Jones and Fred Berinato, and her sisters Lucy and Claire. She is survived by her son Donald Pounds and his companion Patrice Holtzer, daughter Mary Pounds Sisler, daughter-in-law Bette Pounds, sons James Pounds (Bethany) and Thomas Pounds (Liljana), daughter Virginia Pounds, sons Michael Pounds (Catherine) and John Pounds. She was the proud grandmother of sixteen grandchildren and five great-grandchildren: Katy, Austin, Colleen, Connor, Jordan, Jason, Jeremy, Natalie, Anika, Evan, Noah, Ben, Eli, Max, Harper and Nolan; Scarlett, Emma, Carson, Peyton and Wesley. She is also survived by a large extended family and countless friends.

Funeral Services will be held on Saturday, November 9 at 10 a.m. at Immaculate Conception Church, 30 N. Fullerton Ave., Montclair, NJ 07042, followed by interment of ashes at Immaculate Conception Cemetery in Upper Montclair.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Terry’s name to The Release Recovery Foundation at: https://donate.hakuapp.com/donations/new?fundraising_effort=in-loving-memory-of-therese-terry-pounds.

Marylou Schade

11/03/1950 - 07/10/2023

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Obituary For Marylou Schade

Marylou Schade, beloved wife, mother, grandmother (Mema), and dedicated schoolteacher passed away on July 10, 2023, at the age of 72, after a sudden illness. She leaves behind a legacy of love, compassion, and a lifetime of cherished memories.

Marylou was born to parents Clarence and Blanche Seaver, on November 3, 1950, in Guam, which held a special place in her heart throughout her life. She was preceded in death by her parents, brother Robert Seaver, sister Lynne Hodges and daughter-in-law Cheryl Schade. She is survived by her brother Ronald Seaver, sister Michelle Denson (Johnnie), sister-in-law Sue Seaver, as well as many nieces, nephews, and other extended family members.

Marylou's love story with her devoted husband, Daniel Schade, spanned many years filled with precious memories. Their bond served as an inspiration to all who knew them, showcasing the true meaning of partnership and love.

Marylou was the loving mother of three children: Candace Odenweller, Brad Odenweller (Julie), and Catrina Odenweller-Haas (Matthew), and a Stepmother to Daniel Schade Jr. and Tamara Jacquot (Don). As a mother, she always put her children's needs above her own, providing them with unwavering support and guidance. Marylou's dedication to her family extended beyond her immediate children. She was a proud and doting Mema to her seven grandchildren: Trey, Makenah, Jace, Blake, Braylie, Grayson, and Grady who brought immense joy to her life.

Throughout her career, Marylou made a profound impact as a dedicated schoolteacher, spending most of her time at Northwood Local Schools. She was a firm believer in the power of education and its ability to change lives. Her passion for education was evident in the way she nurtured and inspired countless young minds over the years. Marylou's commitment to her students went beyond the classroom as she believed in instilling not only knowledge, but also the values of kindness, respect, and empathy.

Marylou's life was shaped by her experiences as a military BRAT growing up in different parts of the world due to her father's service. This upbringing fostered in her a deep appreciation for diversity and an ability to adapt to new environments with grace and resilience. She was also a proud military mom, always offering immense support to her daughter Catrina and son-in-law Matthew throughout their careers in the Air Force.

Outside of her professional and family life, Marylou enjoyed gardening, tending to her beautiful flowers, and taking walks with her dogs Cassie and Cody who were her constant companions. Spending quality time with her loved ones, creating memories that will forever be treasured, is what she truly lived for.

Marylou Schade will be deeply missed by her family, friends, former students, and all those whose lives she touched. Her unwavering love and compassionate nature will continue to inspire and guide those she leaves behind. Though she may be gone, her spirit will live on in the hearts of those who were fortunate enough to know her.

May Marylou Schade rest in eternal peace knowing that her legacy of love and kindness will forever be cherished.

Family and friends will be received on Friday, July 21, 2023, from 2:00-5:00 PM, at the Sujkowski-Walker Funeral Home & Crematory, 830 Lime City Road, Rossford, Ohio, followed by a memorial service at 5:00 PM in the funeral home. Interment will be private at St. Mary’s Cemetery, Fremont, Ohio. The family will be gathering for a time of fellowship and refreshments at a location to be announced at the memorial service. Memorial contributions may be directed to the American Cancer Society or St. Jude’s Children’s Research Hospital, 262 Danny Thomas Place, Memphis, TN 38105. Online condolences may be shared with the family at www.walkerfuneralhomes.com.

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