Obituaries

Therese ‘Terry’ Pounds (Joiner): 1927-2024

Therese “Terry” Pounds (Joiner), 97, of Montclair, NJ died peacefully surrounded by family at Mountainside Hospital on Wednesday, September 11, 2024. Beloved mother, grandmother, great-grandmother, aunt, cousin and friend, Terry was born a ‘survivor,’ having lost her mother who died soon after her birth in 1927 in New York City. She subsequently lived all over the world as a self-described “army brat” after her father, Colonel Talley Dosier Joiner, remarried and reclaimed “his little Therese” from her aunts who raised her until she was six. After graduating from Columbia High School in Maplewood, NJ, Terry briefly attended college at Trinity, DC, then decided to go to Katharine Gibbs Secretarial School in NJ. The skills she learned there served her well at her first secretarial jobs in Manhattan, then later at Montclair Kimberly Academy in Montclair where she worked for almost twenty years in the Office of External Affairs. She was proud of her mastery of the rules of English grammar, and many relied on her to proofread their letters. After the death of her husband in 1978, Terry set up a Montclair chapter of THEOS, a nationwide non-denominational support group for widowed men and women. She ran the group for approximately ten years and created friendships from that work that lasted until her death. She was also involved with the Friends of Barnet and the Montclair Fine Arts Festival.

Terry was predeceased in death by her husband, Donald Pounds, her son Richard, her beloved companions, Arthur Jones and Fred Berinato, and her sisters Lucy and Claire. She is survived by her son Donald Pounds and his companion Patrice Holtzer, daughter Mary Pounds Sisler, daughter-in-law Bette Pounds, sons James Pounds (Bethany) and Thomas Pounds (Liljana), daughter Virginia Pounds, sons Michael Pounds (Catherine) and John Pounds. She was the proud grandmother of sixteen grandchildren and five great-grandchildren: Katy, Austin, Colleen, Connor, Jordan, Jason, Jeremy, Natalie, Anika, Evan, Noah, Ben, Eli, Max, Harper and Nolan; Scarlett, Emma, Carson, Peyton and Wesley. She is also survived by a large extended family and countless friends.

Funeral Services will be held on Saturday, November 9 at 10 a.m. at Immaculate Conception Church, 30 N. Fullerton Ave., Montclair, NJ 07042, followed by interment of ashes at Immaculate Conception Cemetery in Upper Montclair.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Terry’s name to The Release Recovery Foundation at: https://donate.hakuapp.com/donations/new?fundraising_effort=in-loving-memory-of-therese-terry-pounds.

Mary Jean Turain

12/01/1934 - 02/10/2024

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Obituary For Mary Jean Turain

Mary Jean Turain passed peacefully at home February 10, 2024. Mary was born to Marguerite (Loserth) and Fred Zurmuehlen, of Burlington, Iowa on December 1, 1934. Mary earned a B.A. in Education from Iowa State Teachers College (later renamed University of Northern Iowa) in Cedar Falls, Iowa. She taught grade school for two years in Cedar Rapids, and Burlington, Iowa.

Mary was commissioned a Second Lieutenant in the U.S. Air Force in December 1958, becoming an Air Transportation Officer. In 1959 she reported to Dover AFB, DE, where she was Officer in Charge of the Electrical Accounting Machine & Statistical Services Section of the Aerial Port. She met Lt. Robert Turain, from Marblehead, MA and they married September 11, 1960.

Mary and Bob were stationed at RAF Alconbury, England where they had their first two children. Mary was honorably discharged from the Air Force after serving three years. Bob's Air Force career continued, and took them to Keesler AFB, MS; Phoenix, AZ; Hill AFB, UT; Wright-Patterson AFB, OH; Perrysburg, OH; and Ottawa, Canada over the next 17 years. Upon Bob’s Air Force retirement, they returned to Perrysburg, OH in 1979 and have lived there since.

Mary owned and ran a very successful cake decorating, chocolate and catering business for over 40 years and brought happiness to hundreds of repeat customers who often became friends. Her chocolate making was equally as successful as her cake and catering business. Instructing small classes was her passion, but on occasion she presented to a group as large as 450 international attendees. Upon retiring from her business in 2014 Mary donated over 100 cake pan molds to Perrysburg Way Public Library, establishing “Baker’s Way”, where they can be checked out for use.

Mary was a deeply devoted member of the First Church, Christian Science (Maumee). She was also a member of League of Women Voters, Perrysburg Boat Club and the Perrysburg Garden Club. She led coordination of the first Blue Star By-Way Marker in northwest Ohio, honoring military service members.

Mary was preceded in death by parents, Fred (1988) and Marguerite (1990), and brother Don Zurmuehlen (2013).

She often said her greatest accomplishments were marrying her beloved husband of 63 years, Bob Turain, with whom she raised four “better than average” children - daughter Kathy (Scott) Menser of Stafford, VA; son Kevin (Eileen) of Liberty Township, OH; son Kip (Maria) of Fort Collins, CO; daughter Karin (Mel) Mahler of Bradenton, FL. Nine amazing grandchildren Chelsea Menser; Carly (Rob) Miller; Eric (Hayley) Menser; Madeline Turain; Baxter Turain; Cayla (Gage) Turain; Cristian (Katherine) Turain; Zoe Mahler; Nash Mahler; and great-grandchildren Mikey, Charlotte and Christian Miller. Mary desired to recognize and thank family, friends and strangers for many acts of love, kindness, care and attention extended to her.

A Celebration of Life service will be held from 2 to 4 PM at the W.W. Knight Preserve on April 12, 2024. Memorial contributions may be made to Way Public Library, 101 E. Indiana Ave., Perrysburg, OH 43551 https://waylibrary.info or a charity of your choice. Condolences may be made to the family at www.walkerfuneralhomes.com.

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