Obituaries

Therese ‘Terry’ Pounds (Joiner): 1927-2024

Therese “Terry” Pounds (Joiner), 97, of Montclair, NJ died peacefully surrounded by family at Mountainside Hospital on Wednesday, September 11, 2024. Beloved mother, grandmother, great-grandmother, aunt, cousin and friend, Terry was born a ‘survivor,’ having lost her mother who died soon after her birth in 1927 in New York City. She subsequently lived all over the world as a self-described “army brat” after her father, Colonel Talley Dosier Joiner, remarried and reclaimed “his little Therese” from her aunts who raised her until she was six. After graduating from Columbia High School in Maplewood, NJ, Terry briefly attended college at Trinity, DC, then decided to go to Katharine Gibbs Secretarial School in NJ. The skills she learned there served her well at her first secretarial jobs in Manhattan, then later at Montclair Kimberly Academy in Montclair where she worked for almost twenty years in the Office of External Affairs. She was proud of her mastery of the rules of English grammar, and many relied on her to proofread their letters. After the death of her husband in 1978, Terry set up a Montclair chapter of THEOS, a nationwide non-denominational support group for widowed men and women. She ran the group for approximately ten years and created friendships from that work that lasted until her death. She was also involved with the Friends of Barnet and the Montclair Fine Arts Festival.

Terry was predeceased in death by her husband, Donald Pounds, her son Richard, her beloved companions, Arthur Jones and Fred Berinato, and her sisters Lucy and Claire. She is survived by her son Donald Pounds and his companion Patrice Holtzer, daughter Mary Pounds Sisler, daughter-in-law Bette Pounds, sons James Pounds (Bethany) and Thomas Pounds (Liljana), daughter Virginia Pounds, sons Michael Pounds (Catherine) and John Pounds. She was the proud grandmother of sixteen grandchildren and five great-grandchildren: Katy, Austin, Colleen, Connor, Jordan, Jason, Jeremy, Natalie, Anika, Evan, Noah, Ben, Eli, Max, Harper and Nolan; Scarlett, Emma, Carson, Peyton and Wesley. She is also survived by a large extended family and countless friends.

Funeral Services will be held on Saturday, November 9 at 10 a.m. at Immaculate Conception Church, 30 N. Fullerton Ave., Montclair, NJ 07042, followed by interment of ashes at Immaculate Conception Cemetery in Upper Montclair.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Terry’s name to The Release Recovery Foundation at: https://donate.hakuapp.com/donations/new?fundraising_effort=in-loving-memory-of-therese-terry-pounds.

Helen S. Bernard

02/24/1929 - 03/31/2024

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Obituary For Helen S. Bernard

Helen Schuster Bernard, 95, died peacefully at home on Sunday, March 31, 2024. She was born on February 24, 1929 in Perrysburg, OH in the Community Hospital. She was the first baby girl born at the hospital and was known around town as “Little Miss Community.” Helen was the daughter of Edmund E. and Alice (Dibling) Schuster. She attended St. Rose Elementary and was a graduate of St. Ursula Academy.

She was a lifelong resident of Perrysburg until 1971 when a job opportunity presented itself to her husband, Pete. Off they went to Glens Falls, NY. She worked part time at Troy Savings Bank as a customer service rep and made long-lasting friends.

Helen volunteered with Meals on Wheels and at Glens Falls Hospital. She enjoyed playing bridge with friends, cross country skiing, tennis and could tickle those ivories with the best of them. Music from the 40’s was a passion of Helen’s. “There! I’ve Said It Again” by Vaughn Monroe was her favorite song. She and Pete considered it their song.

The gathering of family in Glens Falls, whether poolside in the summer or snowed in at Christmas, was total chaos but fun! Oh! Those Christmas decorations were second to none. Proof of this could be seen in her basement. Her children referred to it as ”The Christmas Store.”

When Pete retired in 1994 they made the decision to “go back home.” She and her lifelong friends, Peggy and Rose, picked up right where they left off. What fun they all had. Pete and Helen looked forward to their relaxing winter trips to Florida and their family beach vacations to the Outer Banks.

Helen was preceded in death by her parents, her husband, Pete, the love of her life for over 60 years, her sisters Mary Heilman and Margaret Schuster, daughter-in-law Debra Matte Bernard and son-in-law Pete Schaf.

Surviving are her children Debbe (Tom) Becker, Betsy Schaf, Brad Bernard, Peter Bernard and sister Susan E. Mikolajczyk. Grandchildren Carolyn (Chris) Triplett, Katie (Dan) Calhoun, Ann (Rob) Walter, Margaret Bernard, Ellen (Jon) Main, Mary (Ken) Holmes and Bradley (Rosa) Bernard, Jr. They will miss their Meemo forever. She is also survived by great grandchildren Andrew (Leanne) Triplett, Will Triplett, Michael Triplett, Lily Calhoun, Jane Calhoun, Jack Calhoun, John Walter, Charlie Walter, Alice Walter, JP Main, Camden Main, Kellen Holmes, Avery Holmes, Ella Holmes, and many nieces and nephews.

Services will be held Saturday, April 13, 2024 at 10:30 a.m. at St. Rose Catholic Church, 215 E. Front Street, Perrysburg, OH followed by private burial. A celebration of Helen’s life will be held at a later date. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to St. Jude Children’s Hospital or Hospice of NW Ohio. Online condolences can be shared at www.walkerfuneralhomes.com.

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